Friday, March 22, 2013
4:46 PM
In each line's strange syllable: she awakes
Came across an article online, good reminders. I took off some points before reposting:
21 Ways You Should Take Advantage Of Your 20s
(http://thoughtcatalog.com/2012/21-ways-you-should-take-advantage-of-your-20s/)
1. Don’t feel the need to respond to every text message, phone call,
and email the second it reaches you. Once upon a time,
it took longer
than a minute to reach someone. No
one will die if you don’t immediately respond to every message you
receive.
2. Ask for what’s owed to you. Half the time, you’re not getting your
needs met because you’re not
making them known. Your employers,
romantic interests, and friends are not going to read your mind and
give
you what you need unless you speak up.
4. If you’re unhappy and someone offers you a way out, take it. You
don’t owe your first job years of
loyalty and your first-born; you don’t
have to stay in your city just because you’re on a first-name
basis
with the bodega guy. Do what feels right; the initial fear will give way
to excitement.
5. Take advantage of all the energy you have in your 20s. In your 30s
and 40s, your body starts getting upset with you,
when some
20-something babe is all, “Wanna race?” That’s not a concern when you’re
in your 20s — don’t ever take it for granted.
6. Let your more successful friends pick up the check this time.
Before you’re 30, it’s still okay to be work as a barista
and not have
your career path figured out. Save your cash and take up your
lawyer-friend’s offer for dinner.
Use the money you saved to buy more
ramen.
8. Learn how to cook. Here’s an idea — instead of spending all your
money on ridiculously marked-up restaurant food,
save your money by
buying non-processed WHOLE FOODS and LEARNING HOW TO MAKE A MEAL OF REAL
FOOD.
You’ll thank yourself for learning how to cook when your metabolism
catches up to you.
9. Keep making friends. Everyone complains that it’s hard to make
friends after college, but we still manage to find
new people to flirt
with and date, right? It’s not that hard. You know yourself better than
you ever have before,
and your friends can finally reflect that. Don’t
cling to old friends because it’s too frightening or ‘risky’ to make new
ones.
11. Stay up late. If you’re in your 20s, you do. You have all the time. Do
it now and take advantage of how not tired you are.
You think you’re
crabby now when you stay up too late? You’ll never believe how terrible
you feel when you do it in your 30s.
12. Savor those 20s hangovers. They are a gift from God so that
you’ll always remember what your tolerance level is.
Your hangover
recovery time is like flippin’ Wolverine in your 20s. You wake up, feel
like death, pull on some shades,
gulp down coffee or maybe a bloody Mary
and whine about your headache over brunch. Oh, boo hoo.
When you’re
older, every hangover is Apocalypse Freaking Now. You’re not making it
to brunch.
13. Indulge in diner/ fast food at 4 a.m. This is considered depressing behavior once you become a real adult.
14. STOP PROCRASTINATING YOUR TRIP ABROAD. YOUR CHANCES OF TAKING A
LONG VACATION ABROAD DIMINISH
AS YOU BECOME MORE SET IN YOUR WAYS AND AS
YOU GAIN MORE RESPONSIBILITY.
15. Do ‘unacceptable’ things to your hair. Dye it. Dread it. Shave
only the left side of your head and give a crap
if it grows back in a
flattering manner (hint: it won’t). There’s no time but now.
17. Sit down, unplug, and read non-fiction. Do this daily. None of
your peers are doing it. They’re playing video games
and refreshing
Facebook and Gmail chatting about nothing in particular. After a month
you’ll be smarter than all of them.
19. Take road trips. Sitting in a car for days on end isn’t something your body was designed to do forever.
21. Go to/host theme parties. Once people age out of their 20s, no
one’s trying to wear pajamas or Saran Wrap out of the house.
The only
theme parties that exist after your 20s are ‘Wedding,’ ‘Baby Shower,’
and ‘Funeral.’
xxxx